Don't do it then. Report. Amen brother. Thank you for sharing that Justina I really appreciate your willingness to do that. Women never need to work to get sex. We all have issues, so we have no right to be so quick to judge, and look down on others for their perceived issue. (if its true). Its more like rape in nature than sex but the female does not sleep aroundstudy this if you must knowand God says so too! It tells men to be skinny jean wearing pussies (the opposite of what women really want) and women to be whores and sluts (who no man will ever commit to). I feel most people focus on the physical aspect of sex but overlook the mental and emotional aspect which plays an even bigger role in how good the sex can be. Unfortunately partners that get stuck on whos done more dirty deeds than the other often have deeper insecurity issues than this topic could cover and the insecurities are fueled by the world around them. Ugh. The double standard is actually there for a reason. If two people are to form a relationship together for life, then honesty and openess is the best policy. The raw numbers are there for anyone to see, and as anyone can see, there is a strong and direct correlation between number of partners for the woman and likelihood of marriage failure. What matters in the end is if they are a genuinely good person or if they at least have good intentions. You dont think there are alpha women out there? As far as Im concerned, he is the only man I can get sexually aroused by. You never know. Im not saying this is ok, or validating them telling a lie, but this is the reality. and that he cannot get over my past even though I had everything he had been looking for. I agree with your post for the simple fact, people are always passing judgement on someone life and all of us are born imperfect. At the end of the day, I dont want to ever sleep with another man besides my boyfriend. I feel like I'm just in her head sometimes lmao. I have those same tendencies, but as a female. Your girlfriend will likely be very reassuring about everything, and you'll feel better after talking things over. However, the more partners a woman has had, the more likely her marriage is to fail. He look at them both. Im just curiouswhat is your take on any of your male gender having premarital sex? I can forgive myself and others for what they have done if the guy truly loves me and has things i always wanted. One small example would be crying Acceptable for women over many small things, not acceptable for men..I doubt many women would be attracted to guys who cried almost daily over any small thing. This is why men are actually attracted to more pure women. My point in the end is although it shouldn't matter, it does. So dont judge her based on a number, evaluate her based on the woman she is today. ) Wouldnt you want You are referencing a single paper? Have you ever heard of kegel exercises? Just that the second one gets paid for it? Now if a guy has a lot and the girl has a lot too, it is equal ground imho. I AM SORRY, AS WOMENWE MUST HOLD OURSELVES TO HIGHER STANDARDSWHEN WE BEGAN TO LOSE OUR MORALS AND ACT LIKE MEN IS WHEN WE STARTED TO BE MORE LIKELY TO GET SHOT THAN MARRIED. Women are yet to be seen as equals. Clap , Clap , Clap.. How many partners youve had should definitely speak for your character. Of course orgasms will be fine. Yeah I agree. Fourth, I work globally. Their lack of experience makes them fantasize about the what ifs. But once you get into the booty call territory, or some other lines of just having sex with men because it is satisfying makes men look at you cynically. We told the truth and we understood each other. It shows you what not to do ever again.I am a very open minded person. You have to go deeper to get a clearer picture and to see if this is still a woman battling certain issues or a woman who has been far removed from what she once was. This is what society gets for sexual liberation. It matters to me because I purposely don't sleep around. You say we shouldnt judge someone on their past? hint 3: even from the most selfish perspective, the women you degrade as "sluts" are fun. The only position here is dont let the past stop you from receiving and embracing your blessings. I thought that sex was the only thing guys wanted from me and without that they would just leave or get it somewhere else. B) Twenty sex partners, had sex a total of 100 times. Marry the person who you want to be with for the rest of your life. He is happy, so should the number hold that much power and the relationship end? it's up to you to be good enough for them. We are happy. Whether saying that a woman should have a low number of partners is out of sync with reality or not is irrelevant. Sex isnt just for men. Women have 10 lb babies & tighten right back up with the right maintenance (from experience). Then, my sweet little friend, I would suggest you do a thorough SELF-examination. Sex is purely pleasing, its not emotional for me. Its all we have. I do not agree that the more partners she has had the more likely the marriage will fail. Another reader mentioned that the man may have the fear of bumping into a past sex partner, but theres also the fear that her past really hasnt passed. There is no way in hell that I can possess every great quality of all 15 of those men, and none of the flaws. I will not look down upon people who do not agree with this, I just genuinely feel that they may not be taking the best approach. I just don't want to lose my mind about this soon as I don't want to ruin what I have with this girl. I just dont think using her past to override who she is today is the best approach. I am pointing out that sex is vastly different for men and women.. That is how we are made.. of this fact).But also realize that a marriage strike is on and is going to get bigger. So in my opinion the way to ensure more virgins and keep women in that box is to slander anyone that steps outside of that. In addition, last time I checked, a woman is not a car to be driven. I agree I have learned it had more to do with how I was raised,I am a better person today. I cannot lie that finding out all the stuff about her hurt me because I generally do hold deep emotions for her, but as someone else stated, it is ridiculous to say "do not judge someone by their past", because the same cannot be said for criminals who committed a crime and now regret it. many issues that person will have from having sex with so many people. Most of us have things in our past that the next person can view in a negative light. Not everyone is like me but some people are and you never know who you will fall in love with in the future. So, somebody who has raped a person years agoshouldnt have that counted againstthem because that isnt who they really are now? Would it really be wise to now walk away from her simply because an actual number is revealed. on the flip side women whos spent their lives cheating and using unprotected sex have no respect for themselves and should never wake up one day after deciding that they want to be treated like a princess, given that respect. Regardless of what it was, it shouldnt matter. If you express those feelings to her in a hurtful way (because they are abusive) she's gonna bail on you. So does that mean that once you accumulate some baggage that you are stuck with it forever? Sure, they can lie but I have always found the real number later and left them. You should have an idea that its not a good look. I don't expect women to stay virgins until marriage in today's world but at least have sex with someone you share love and intimacy with. that will always be what it is and now you know it is most likely to be a I had a serious relationship with my ex wehn i was 26, i lost my virginity to him, however he did not lose it with me, i knew he had an ex..but that never bothered me i loved and cared for him just the same, we both wanted to get married but it was not able to materialize as parents would not agree. Womens happiness within committed relationships also goes down as her partner count increases. Is it the number of acts, the number of partners, or the types of acts? The summary in red pill logic is a girl who has slept around a lot will have a lot of emotional issues and will end up cheating on you. HOLD ON TO THE SPIRIT OF JESUS CHRIST. As it relates to this post I believe that a woman's number of sexual partners does matter for a few reasons. People rarely change. Location: Melbourne, Australia. Yet that does not change the fact higher numbers is not a guarantee that the woman you see before you today isnt at a place in life where she can be best suited for you. As sad as it seems, the fact is CERTAIN Men sleep with tons of Women, and many Women sleep if lots of Men. That should not deter you, if anything let it motivate you to just be better and become the best lover she has ever had. Please have a successful relationship before you consider children. Master Age: 48 , mho 32%. If you think she doesnt, think twice, because some people dont know how to show it, or show it in strange ways and we might miss those moments (like I have) because were too focused on the negative bits. I have seen women who had only slept with one man end up being loose while in a relationship. I can only imagine the disappointment her parents or my mother would express if they knew the truth about her. So when women say that having sex with lots of men is somehow acting like men, they are wrong. Is she in to me or just a touchy best friend? I never disclosed about my past, however due to his inquisitive nature and the way he made me feel safe, I opened up to him and told him the truth. Very good point, I may have to edit the post and throw that in somewhere : ). You sir, are that stupid guy in this instance. One of the men I sleep with wants to marry me and is very jealous. Run. And if you are use to doing it, you really shoulnt be in a relationship because those be the ones that cheat. Think about this. How very sad. That's why I am so thankful that I have Jesus as my perso. Ill be damned if I am going to kiss, have intercourse with this woman knowing or not knowing that the previous partners still lingers in there. I lost my virginity to a girl who had been with lots of guys before me. Personally, I think that men and women should strive to have a lower number of sexual partners but I don't think that women should try to act like men in the thinking that having numerous partners is a good thing. The only problem with yr case is you did what you did. The First and the Last. That does not mean you have to agree with it. Now does that change your perspective? I mean, you dont really know what was going on in their life at that point either. Who are they sleeping with? So having lots of casual sex it a good indicator that a woman has emotional problems. My body doesn't want anyone else when I love someone. And dont assume that the men who play arent still looking for a relationship but last time I checked, the feel of a women is a helluva lot different than a hand job at midnight and will therefore satisfy that itch while they find the one. Cheers. Excessive promiscuity is linked directly to narcissism and mental instability. No, they dont. Its not good north bad. A guy friend of mine had to dump his first girlfriend in college because she kept pushing to get married and to settle down. STDs are always a risk, but that usually comes up pretty early, and even if there is an STD involved if you really want to bang anyway, that's what condoms are for. A woman can own her body without giving it to every Tom, Dick, and Harry who comes along. Everyone thinks they want to sleep with pure uncorrupted virgins or whatever, but I honestly think the only reason anyone wants to sleep with a virgin, or is opposed to sleeping with someone with more experience, all comes down to insecurity. I just figured that if some of these ignorant people want to judge people they dont know Id give them a short and specific story. Be very wary of that. Do you think that I can take her seriously? Others may have been dealing with some deep issues and did not know how to properly handle it. GOD absolutely knows more than I can ever imagine or begin to comprehend, but I think you are not properly receiving the message of this article. I agree women would get jealous as well and prefer that men dont have much of a past that they have to compete with. Its expensive, time consuming, heart wrenching and horrible for children and most normal people actually dont want to put themselves nor their families through it if they can help it. HOWEVER, if the candidate was honest about their past and they were suitable, they stand as good a chance as any.. Ask around ladies. great number of men for the same reason. I agree everyone should practice abstinence. If we had a daughter and son, our daughter would do those things as well because her mommy did those things so it must be ok for her to do it too. Shadow Hunter-Stay in Touch. The reason why I view the actual number irrelevant is due to this example: Lets say you meet a woman and she is amazing. Independent. 9 d. 395 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. weird, isn't it. Women are raised differently from men and each carry different values. You will feel that you left . Man I wrote a whole paragraph on this stephan you a bitch wheres my comment ? Your notions of beta this and slut that are so divorced from reality where do I begin. But sadly they werent. I have self-esteem. Im a guy who never really had any girlfriends, I turned down or was just completely blind to all advances to me and missed all opportunities, I never really cared (or told myself I didnt, but probably I did), I would be a virgin if it wasnt for the few random prostitutes I slept with yeh, something Im not happy about but I only did it cause I was lonely and never believed in myself, I had my heart broken a few times (yeh wahh wahh, I was young and a sensitive human being), I had chronic anxiety and the thought of even going on a date made me want to vomit so I never met anyone or just avoided it I was 28 before I finally met someone who actually loves me, I was blown away. Just say you finnaly got a date, where would you go? By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. Like the article states you dont know why she chose to sleep with an individual or several. A bit extreme. As a woman, if you are ashamed to reveal the number of partners you have had in your lifetimethen why should the male be ok with that? My parents argued constantly when I was a child and still do to this day. I found out she was very open about hooking up and put herself on "hook-up" websites where she could trade nude pictures with random men who just were looking for flings. The only men who have sexual power would be BILLIONARES and FAMOUS men.thats IT. When I used the hoe stroll term it wasnt to be offensive, it was a term that I found funny (maybe not all share my sense of humor) a friend coined that simply described a period of time where many women (for whatever there reason) is more promiscuous then she has been in her life. how to get likes on dating apps as a male? Its only because it does matter to us that we may not want I say how many men she has slept with should not matter. They want a woman, someone different than they are. Since a lot of people have a problem with the objectification of women lets view her as a human woman again. you do? about you. So if a man has slept with a hundred then he should be deemed the same way that a woman is if she sleeps with that many. Men should realize that a low number of partners You could now be infected with some genetic disease that doesnt even run in your family. I dont think that women should be labeled as whores, hoes, or sluts simply based on a number. Im logical, confident, and independent. Please! No one wants to date a girl thats been ran through. I agree 100%. I also disagree that those people are the ones that cheat. I get so excited all the time with her, cause I know she was a slut and Im proud of being a slut too. (multiple boards, articles studies etc) evince its importance. Ive been in two serious relationships. insert kylo ren meme here. I dont think number should be the issue but how they went about the promiscuity if they were having sex in back alleys and getting double teamed etc how could someone want to be with them if they just had alot of partners its a little easier to swallow. In a romantic sense any woman who sleeps around is unattractive to me. but that did not bother me. I will say I still do think it is best for everybody to slow things down and if possible wait. Most women these days DO have lots of experience. Let her know your goal is to simply be better, and to have peace within yourself about this issue. Your source was concerned with the myth of high rate of divorce in general, and was not studying the relatively high incidences of higher divorce amongst women with more sexual partners. Or why jobs do background checks or the existence of credit scores. Also consider that all people who engage in a lot of casual sex have higher rates of depression and low self-esteem and lower rates of life satisfaction. Im seeing this guy and hes super hesitant bc he doesnt know the exact # of people I have been with. Men have conqiustadorian aditudes about many things including women. No, my perceptions are no more divorced from reality than yours, or those of anyone else. The skank on the other hand discloses with everyone how many people she's been with. I feel sorry for whoever marries the likes of you. And I wish I didnt. Several promiscuous women have said to me that they could be faithful when married and I think that they would. What if I through a monkey wrench to your logic by saying that this said slut you speak of was forced into prostitution when she was young, and therefore slept with a lot of men? All of these judgmental gender-based views and name-calling is the height of examples of sexism. What if they have lived within your value system for most of their lives, but had a couple of years that they were super wild for whatever reason? This post also feels like a way to almost look for what I want to hear i.e. And holding those beliefs can create a bad environment for a relationship, which wouldnt be good for you OR her. University of Virginia says it does matter if you want a happy marriage. You could play an important role in her life, and teach her how lovely a LTR can be. Exploring a little bit and being willing to learn can make you a better lover. First, ever since our common ancestors walked out of West The guys just choose to be promiscuous anyway because of false man-made teaching. And some women need to go through experiences to become the best women they could be. "Women tend to be more unhappy with the relationship they are in . Thats a load of crap! I encourage you remain faithful as long as your in any relationship. interact. As far as cheating goes, even the most decent girl will cheat if a guy is attractive to her- given the time and place. I confronted her about it and she responded the number was 5. Im not saying that my hoe friends shouldnt find a great man one day but damn, if they saw them now theyd never get wifed. I go to a state school & am constantly reminded that its a small world. Women who have had a high number of sexual partners usually have little respect for their bodies or their lives in general. I appear to have acquired a stalker. But you would never have known looking at her. Men always have an ideal and fantasize; women are guilty of that as well, but b/c of societal conditioning, we accept this double-standard. It comes in handy. Because if not, there should be no issue. Some, such as yourself possibly, dont have the save freedoms. thanks but no thanks. Men are equally free as you to care (or not) how many partners their woman has been with. In my opinion, it kinda shows what type of person you are and how much respect you have for yourself. Common sense. NO! Cant turn a hoe into a housewife. Although hes been with girls that are tighter than I, he comes quicker, harder, and more intensely and immensely because of his emotional towards me. PROGRAMAO. You assume that not being old fashioned means being a slut. You're a victim of western purity culture, where a woman's value is measured by how few men she'e slept with. The divorce rate in the US has been declining since 1982 along with the marriage rate, and cohabitation is a big reason for it. Just keep going forward. I swear, idiots..youre just being selfish. I disagree 100%. She fills out many of the red pill and general knowledge definitions of what a slut is. Manifesting The Man and Life God Has for You (The Course), Manifesting The Man and Life God Has for You (The Membership), Manifesting The Man and Life God Has for You (Course), Manifesting The Man and Life God Has for You (Membership), Cheat code to a fulfilling long lasting relationship. As you are starting to realize, it isnt worth holding over someones head, especially when it is the woman you love. Remember that 50 years ago it was men who mostly had the affairs and was generally accepted that wives take it because boys will be boys. Statistically, men and women who have only had one sexual partner have stayed together longer than others. Blanksie if you take the time to read the article and many other articles I have written you will notice that I always mention that I think it is best for women to wait. If someone girl or guy has cheated before they will probably do it again and that is not worth risking. Even the girl who says she has casual sex without emotions points out the sex she had was with people she was already emotionally connected to, her friends. Altamera74, from a chicks point of view, you are going to end up a very sad and lonely man if you take that sort of attitude into your life when it comes to choosing a partner. You say what happened to encouraging people to do better, but how is continuing the practice of judging people on their past a good thing? and dont forget life is a stinky bitch, you call your friend in your house and he happened to be one of your wifes exes. I completely agree with you that a woman's sexual health (i.e. I didn't feel all that special when it came to making love. Sorry but it is a cutoff and a major factor in a potential mate. Always feel free to express yourself on my blog because even in disagreement the discussion can be good and productive. If you refuse to give a woman a chance because of her past, you might be missing out on a really good woman. Cut it out and replace it with positive experiences. Women who choose to be sluts make their beds, and must lie in them. I dont know, it just seems you have left a lot of factors out. All by the help of the Queen mother . Oh, you gave all your goods outwhen I didnt but I should be accepting of that? Its a reality of biology. But if that matters to you then thats your preference. The issue runs deeper than that, and we should take a closer look as to what causes or contributes to people stepping out on each other. I understand where you are coming from, but I do not fully agree. no. of life (high school/college) and people seem to not care as much as they get And, if many guys were blatantly honest with themselves and others, they would probably admit to being more promiscuous than their significant others. Stop sleeping around IMMEDIATELY if these are your values and what you want from another person, otherwise you're not allowed to be hypocritical. A lot of things have been in practice since the beginning of time, that does not mean it is the best or most effective approach. haha Also A LOCK that is open by any KEY is a USELESS LOCK!, To my point of view we all have our premises on how we chose our partners (size, color of eyes, color of hair, etc) for me the number of sexual partners of the person I would chose it would be also a factor I have to admit that bumping into a ex partner would be a negative effect but to me is more the idea of this person being more able of controlling herinstincts a bit better than an animal or not.. Sounds like a double standard to me. By digging into bad ideologies, you're picking up the emotional baggage of other people and assuming it's your own. Additionally, male and female sexuality is just different. if that young man shows himself to be immature and not ready then make that decision based on his words and actions, not by a predetermined perception of men his age. Many women will not feel comfortable telling the real number because of the fear of being judged. This is life. -Gray areas is what is causing problems now Like legitimately, tell me why it matters. Because my man gets insecure and wants to leave Well Im sorry to tell you that no man wants damaged goods. Stop with the STD guise it is about an Men getting around has never been acceptable behavior and never should be. To ride is free. Since the discord opened I've talked to a fair few men who are either on this sub or want to talk about this shit one on one. If you are brigading from another subreddit you will be banned. I literally threw up. Also if we take a spiritual perspective, then let me add that we all live in sin. 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